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Jane M. Aceto
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Mrs. Jane M. (DiBenedetto) Aceto, passed away at her home surrounded by those she loved, on Saturday, April 25, 2009.

Jane was born in Utica, July 16, 1920, a daughter of the late Salvatore and Angeline (Prester) DiBenedetto. She was educated in local schools attending Conkling and T.R. Proctor High School.

On Thanksgiving Day, November 21, 1940, Jane was joined in marriage to Anthony T. “Tony” Aceto. They shared a very loving marriage of over thirty-seven years, until her beloved Tony passed away on October 16, 1977.

Mrs. Aceto had been employed as an assembler at Mele Manufacturing and a saleslady at My Boys Shop for many years.

She is survived by her two daughters and sons-in-law, Connie and Edward Szczygiel of Chadwicks and Angela and Thomas Mikalajunas of New Hartford; one son, Anthony Aceto; two daughters-in-law, Carol Aceto and Maureen Aceto; fourteen beloved grandchildren; twelve great grandchildren; five great-great grandchildren; one sister; Fannie Conte; in-laws, Frank and Rita Aceto and Denita “Dolly” Aceto; her dear friends, Steven and Theresa Toolan; and also many nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her beloved son, Salvatore Aceto; and three brothers, Mike, Phil and Joseph DiBenedetto.

Her Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. at St. Mary of Mt. Carmel/Blessed Sacrament Parish. Private entombment will be in Resurrection Mausoleum.

Relatives and friends may call on Tuesday from 5-8 p.m. at The Matt Funeral Home, 700 Rutger St., corner of Mohawk St., in Utica.

The family would like to offer their heartfelt gratitude to the nurses of 3-B at St. Elizabeth Medical Center and also Hospice Care for their loving care and compassion during this difficult time.

By family request please omit floral offerings.

For directions to the funeral home, click the link above.
 
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Dear Aceto family, I know that your beloved Mom has suffered, especially since our beautiful Sam went to heaven. Although there must be some comfort in knowing she is now with Sam and at peace, I know it is still hard to say good-bye. Thank you for opening your hearts and your family to my Aunt Teresa and my cousin Steven. Please know our family's thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very sad time. May God bless you. Love, Donna Cohen and family (Steven's cousin from Long Island)

Written by Donna Cohen
2009-04-26 12:51:31 PM


To my family it was an honor for me to be part of grams family.Iwill always remember all are late nite teas and all her advice she gave us,CARRIE will always remember there hot card games andthe chicken fingerand frenchfries and her goodybags and the candy dish that was always filled with her favorite candy I just want you all to know you all are the true meaning of what a family is truly about love mary

Written by mary mcrorie
2009-04-26 1:09:11 PM


Gram you will be missed by all of my family. Was glad we could share the birth of Addisyn and you seen pictures of her. You held your family together and will be missed by all. Wish I could be there for my mom just hard not be ing there. You are going home liked you asked and you will be reunited with Grampa and Uncle Sam. Rest now gram you deserve it. Love Always from your gramddaughter Joanne

Written by Joanne Alberico
2009-04-26 2:25:37 PM


Gram, you are really going to be missed. You really were a big part of my life. All the time I spent with you and grampa when I was a kid will always be special to me. My heart now has a void that will never be filled, but I know you are with grampa and Uncle Sam. You are now in good company. You now have no more pain and can have the comfort you deserve. Carrie will always remember her Big G, you were always so good to her, I'm happy I was able to bring her into your life and that you had some time to enjoy being with her. Even though you never liked having your picture taken, I have many of you that I will always look at and enjoy, knowing that every picture of you was a special moment in our lives. Your love for your family will always may there and we will always love you. I will miss you but always know you are that you are still with us in our memories and our hearts. Writing this is very hard knowing I'm not telling you this in person. I love you Gram and I will never forget you.

Written by Chuck McRorie
2009-04-27 10:33:36 AM


to my bleoved grandma. i will miss you with all my heart i loved you very much your ment alot to me and this family you always held to fort down you will always be in my heart forever. you can now rest with pop and you my uncle sam i will think of you evry day your grand son eddy szczygiel

Written by eddy szczygiel
2009-04-27 11:42:46 AM


Gram To the most wonderful gram in the world. I'am going to miss you so much. I will miss your phone calls when you would call to check up on me. Gram you always worried about my health and not your own. You always put others before yuorself. I know you hated the life you were living but it's still hard to have you leave us. We are going to miss you so much. No more visits with you after my doctor appts, but i'am glad that I did have some very special talks with you. You were one smart gram you always knew what you were talking about and you were always right gram. I will always remember the advice you gave me. You were and always will be the best gram that anyone could ever want. I'am Proud to say you were my Gram and I will Miss you so much. I hope you are happy in your new home and at peace with grampa and uncle Sam thats all you wanted. Until we meet again, I love you and will miss you and you will always be in my Heart. Your Grandaughter Paula McRorie

Written by Paula McRorie
2009-04-27 12:38:15 PM


To The Aceto Family Sorry to hear of your loss, we will keep you all in our thoughts & prayers. With our Deepest Sympthy Jimmy & Maryrose

Written by Jim & Maryrose Schiavetta
2009-04-27 1:10:47 PM


Gram I miss you always. Walking into your kitchen and not seeing you sitting there in your chair will always bring tears to my eyes. I am so happy Michael and Mariah were able to spend so much time with you and also make so many memories. ALL OUR LOVE RENEE ANTHONY MICHAEL AND MARIAH

Written by Renee Scalzo
2009-04-27 1:16:43 PM


Gram, You may not have been my gram by blood but you never treated me differently. I will be forever grateful for that. You will be missed. To Connie,Paula, Kimmy, Eddie and family I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you all at this time. love Tyra

Written by Tyra Skinkle
2009-04-27 4:13:07 PM


Gram, No more pain,no more suffering. I know you are where you want to be, but it was still hard to see you go.Joelle and I, along with Connie and Mom will have a sfogliatelle and coffee for you. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU.

Written by "Little" Tom & Joelle Mikalajunas
2009-04-27 9:38:49 AM


Gram I'am so honored to been involved in your life, I will cherish the time we spent togeather on our grocery shopping trips, and stopping to get a bite to eat and our talks we shared. I know you are in a better place now without pain and reunited with your beloved family. You will remain in my Heart always. You are the true meaning of what a family is. God Bless you while you walk with the Angels and look down upon your family and watch over them with love.

Written by Kelly Hurteau
2009-04-27 9:43:41 PM


Jane even though i didnt know you personally. My mom has been going to your Daughter Angela hair saloon for years your daughter will miss you dearly may god now open the gates of heaven and may you rest in peace.

Written by lisa klein
2009-04-28 6:32:39 AM


Tony, We both have lost our moms and we know the emptiness you're feeling right now. Your dad waited a long time for her to arrive at Heavens Gate. Take comfort in knowing they are together once more, and will watch over you and guide you from above. Timmy, Losing a Grandmother is just as hard. Keep her memory alive by keeping her traditions going and never forget the Life's Lessons she taught you along the way. We'll keep you all in our prayers. Butch and Bev

Written by butch lazore
2009-04-28 7:12:24 PM


Connie and family, My god bless all of you during this most difficult time.

Written by Kristin Smith
2009-04-28 8:20:48 PM


To the family, may you find comfort in knowing that God is "near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves." (Psalm 34;18) Take care,

Written by kelsey lee
2009-04-29 10:58:29 PM


with sympathy and love i give my warm regards. as my mom passed just a couple of days before yours iam sorry i couldn't make the wake.

Written by DENNIS GIORGI
2009-04-29 3:09:00 PM


Gram - you meant so much to our family. Thanks so much for the advice that you gave me throughout the years. We love and miss you.

Written by Stephen Aceto
2009-04-29 5:47:06 AM


Big Gram I know I didn’t live close to you but I will always remember the talk we shard when we came to visit. I will always love you big gram. Love your great granddaughter Marcella

Written by Marcella Alberico
2009-04-30 7:10:56 AM


"Gram" I will always remember when I used to go to your home with your granddaughter Paula for coffee and "good" stuff to eat. You would make me a wonderful eggplant sandwich.We would sit around your table for hours and have awesome conversation.I know that you were "the rock" of your beautiful family.I can say that I always felt I was part of your family and I always felt welcome and comfortable in your home. You are sadly missed, although I know in my heart that you are at peace and with your loved ones. Until we meet again someday "Gram"..... Much love, Linda Skinkle

Written by Linda Skinkle
2009-05-03 6:29:34 AM